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| Quote ="SaintsFan"Nobody knows why Terry Newton committed suicide. It might have had nothing whatsoever to do with his drug use or his ban from the sport. However, even if it did, that should not at any time stop the RFL from being firm and consistent in banning players who use prohibited substances. An employer does have a duty of care to employees but only to a limited degree. They also have a responsibility to uphold the rules and good name of the sport and to protect other players (where appropriate) from any additional risk posed by drug using players (even though in the case of Gleeson he cheated rather than put anyone at physical risk). Neither the RFL nor the clubs should be afraid to punish wrong doing because one player took his own life for reasons unknown to anyone but himself, however unfortunate that was.'"
i'm glad you've never made a mistake or needed any support from anyone, well done you
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| Quote ="SaintsFan"Gleeson cheated and he lied. He has cheated before (the betting scandal) and so it is nothing to do with his lack of intelligence (if indeed he is so lacking) or with being some poor innocent or with having mental health problems. Some people just want to get away with stuff. Such people exist everywhere. He is a grown man who is also a professional sportsman and will have been well aware that the responsibility for what goes into his system is his and not his conditioner's or Sean Long's or anybody else's. Even fans know that and they are not provided with the education or information that professional players are. So there is no excuse for Gleeson. He cheated, he lied and he received the appropriate punishment, which was halved anyway due to his cooperation. I've no sympathy with him at all.'"
You're quite entitlied to your opinion,i agree with some of your comments.(allthough it seems he thought everything was ok with the tablets he recieved from Long,being told so by Rule and Cooper)but i am more concerned for Martin Gleeson as a person,not a player.We should learn from the Terry Newton affair.Players at the end of their careers can become very depressive.
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| Quote ="Saint Simon"i'm glad you've never made a mistake or needed any support from anyone, well done you'"
I would suggest you get off your high horse. You know feck all about me.
Work with children in a social care situation for any length of time and see first hand just how drugs destroy their lives and maybe you wouldn't be so high and mighty about my views. As I have said already, I am totally anti drugs. There is a very valid reason for that: they destroy lives.
Gleeson cheated. He has cheated before. He was allowed back in the game previously. He is an adult. He has had his chances. He fluffed them. He should be held accountable for his actions and he has been. End of story.
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| Quote ="SaintsFan"I would suggest you get off your high horse. You know feck all about me.
Work with children in a social care situation for any length of time and see first hand just how drugs destroy their lives and maybe you wouldn't be so high and mighty about my views. As I have said already, I am totally anti drugs. There is a very valid reason for that: they destroy lives.
Gleeson cheated. He has cheated before. He was allowed back in the game previously. He is an adult. He has had his chances. He fluffed them. He should be held accountable for his actions and he has been. End of story.'"
I agree with all of that, but do you think just leaving him to his fate is wise? I dont think he should play rugby again (professionally) but noone deserves what happened to Newton, and trying to deny that his ban had any influence on his later actions is ridiculous
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| Quote ="Saint Simon"I agree with all of that, but do you think just leaving him to his fate is wise? I dont think he should play rugby again (professionally) but noone deserves what happened to Newton, and trying to deny that his ban had any influence on his later actions is ridiculous'"
Agreed,as i said earlier,stop treating him as a player and start treating him as a person
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| Quote ="Saint Simon"I agree with all of that, but do you think just leaving him to his fate is wise? '"
Hull released Gleeson months ago and so neither Hull nor the RFL has any duty of care over Gleeson. It is his own decision how he moves forward in his life now and so yes, he should be left to his own devices. Clubs and the RFL are not parents and nor are they healthcare professionals. They are businesses and once an individual has left their employment then that individual is no longer their responsibility. That is perfectly appropriate.
Quote I dont think he should play rugby again (professionally) but noone deserves what happened to Newton, and trying to deny that his ban had any influence on his later actions is ridiculous'"
I am not denying anything. I am stating a patently obvious fact: nobody but the person committing the act of suicide knows why that person is committing suicide. Those closest to the suicide are often the most ignorant of its likelihood and this is statistically more so where male suicides are concerned as males tend not to share their feelings. Women often send out 'help me' signals first.
Aside from that point, tiptoeing around accountability because one player has committed suicide is erroneous. The rules of our sport must be upheld. Everybody is made aware of them and knows them. Gleeson was responsible for his own actions. He is 31 years old for heaven's sake. He's a grown man.
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| Quote ="SaintsFan"Aside from that point, tiptoeing around accountability because one player has committed suicide is erroneous. The rules of our sport must be upheld. Everybody is made aware of them and knows them. Gleeson was responsible for his own actions. He is 31 years old for heaven's sake. He's a grown man.'"
everyone agrees on this, but you seem alone in the idea to leave him to his own devices.
If you really think someone who has not commited a criminal act, but has ruined his own life by hy his own actions doesnt need help just to make sure they're ok, you're deluded.
Its the same for people who run people over, its tragic but another death wont help the first, just adds to more destoyed lives
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| Quote ="Saint Simon"everyone agrees on this, but you seem alone in the idea to leave him to his own devices. '"
Being alone in an idea doesn't mean that my idea isn't correct, just that it is unpopular and I have never been afraid of holding unpopular ideas! He is a grown man who has misbehaved on more than one occasion (betting scandal, drink driving conviction, now using a banned substance). He has had more than his fair share of second chances.
Quote If you really think someone who has not commited a criminal act, but has ruined his own life by hy his own actions doesnt need help just to make sure they're ok, you're deluded.'"
Nope. I'm not deluded.
On this occasion he wanted a quick way of losing weight and used a product containing a banned substance towards that aim, and then lied about the circumstances. There is nothing there to suggest he is anything other than ok. He just wanted a quick fix to a problem, something lots of people look for. And he has done other things that have nothing to do with him being ok or otherwise; they are just irresponsible things and he received just punishment for them also.
Some people are just irresponsible, Simon. I meet them every day in my present job. Only they are irresponsible as parents. Sometimes they commit a crime, sometimes they don't, but their children are removed from their care just the same. People young and old have to take responsibility for their own actions. Gleeson has sometimes ducked that and he continues to experience the consequences of doing so. That's his problem, not the RFL's or the club's or mine or yours. I really don't have any sympathy for him and I don't give a damn whether that is the popular view or not.
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| Its all gone egoistic tit tat this thread.................should be locked.
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| Quote ="Judder Man"Its all gone egoistic tit tat this thread.................should be locked.'"
agreed
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